SafeOut —
the bot that won't forget

When a message to a friend is not enough

You can send a friend the guy's details and ask them to call if you haven't texted by midnight. But your friend might get distracted, fall asleep, or simply miss it. And you have to remember to text "all good" yourself.

SafeOut doesn't forget. You tap "Start date" — 30 minutes later the bot asks "how are you?". You don't reply — 15 minutes after that it texts your friend itself, without any action from you. You physically can't respond — the bot fires anyway.

Quick start

1. Open @safeout_dates_bot and press /start.
2. Choose your language (RU / EN / TR).
3. Add at least one trusted contact — /contacts → Add contact.

Before the date — /newdate

The bot will ask one by one:

• the person's name and their handle on the dating app;
• a link to their profile (Tinder, Instagram…);
• where you're meeting and where you might go next;
• car plate and description;
• any other important info;
• the time you plan to be home.

Everything optional can be skipped with /skip. Then attach photos, chat screenshots, document photos, voice messages. When done — ✅ Done with files.

Safety checklist

The bot shows a 19-item checklist — it auto-checks some items from your answers, the rest you confirm manually. Items marked (!) are mandatory safety basics (first meeting in a public place, etc.) and block the start until checked. When ready — ▶️ All set — start the date.

During the date

Right after starting, share your live location (paperclip → Location → Share Live Location) — this way contacts will see where you are on the alert page.

Every 15 minutes the bot sends three quick questions with buttons:

• All good — next check in 15 minutes;
• Something's off — the bot offers a full checklist, calling a contact, or noting it and continuing;
• SOS — immediate alert.

If you don't respond — 15 minutes later the bot automatically messages connected contacts with all saved details and a link to the alert page.

SOS and getting home

The SOS button is in every bot message during the date — contacts get alerted immediately, no 15-minute wait.

When you're home: tap I'm home, all good — the bot closes the date and messages contacts that everything is fine.

If someone sent you an invite link

Follow the link and press Start. From that moment the bot can message you if your person has a problem on a date. The alert message contains a link to a page with all the details: who, where, the car, photos, last known location.

How much does it cost

The first 3 dates are free — no registration, no card, no setup. Just start the bot and use it.

After that — two payment options:

• 550 Telegram Stars — pay by card, Apple Pay, or Google Pay right inside Telegram. The easiest option.
• 7 USDT — crypto via @CryptoBot. Good if you already have a crypto wallet.

Bot commands